Bart Hatler

March 7, 2020

Couples, Dating, EFT

What Does Your Enneagram Type Have to Do with Your Relationship?

Bart Hatler

March 7, 2020

Couples, Dating, EFT

Wondering how your personal enneagram type is affecting your relationships? Trying to figure out who you are most compatible with and how to improve your love life?

Bart Hatler

January 1, 2020

Dating, EFT

Dating Intelligence: How Knowing Your Attachment Style Could Be an Advantage

Bart Hatler

January 1, 2020

Dating, EFT

Your attachment style describes, predicts and makes sense of how you relate to others in dating and intimate relationships. Here’s how knowing your attachment style can help you find the right person.

Bart Hatler

December 27, 2019

Couples, EFT

Holiday Stress Survival Guide: 6 Practical Tips for Protecting Your Relationship

Bart Hatler

December 27, 2019

Couples, EFT

When tensions are running high during the holidays, you might take out your frustrations on your partner, or you may notice that they’ve been doing the same to you.

Bart Hatler

July 24, 2018

EFT

Are You Feeling Hopeless About Your Relationship? 3 Ways to Start Feeling Better.

Bart Hatler

July 24, 2018

EFT

You’re feeling hopeless about your relationship, but does that mean you’re doomed? Or is there still hope in spite of that sinking feeling?

Bart Hatler

November 30, 2017

Couples, EFT

Premarital Counseling in San Francisco: Why bother...?

Bart Hatler

November 30, 2017

Couples, EFT

You live in San Francisco, one of the toughest dating scenes, this side of say...the Hudson River and Manhattan and...well, you're killing it! So why bother with premarital counseling when life is so good?

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The Science of Attraction: The Chemistry of Physical Attraction (How Important Is It?)

Apr 18, 2020

Imagine yourself sitting in a coffee shop with one of your friends and you catch a glimpse of the person who walks in. You just can’t help but notice how attractive they are. Do you ever wonder what’s really going through your head during those moments?

Apr 18, 2020

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7 Essential Elements of a Healthy Relationship

Mar 14, 2020

Here are a few essential elements of every happy relationship. You and your partner might approach them in your own unique way, but if you’ve been feeling like something is “missing” in your relationship, it could be on this list!